The guest stops at an inn where he passes the night, and as soon as he has done so, he packs and continues his journey because he has no time to stay longer.
As to the host of the inn, he has nowhere to go. He has to stay.
This is how you distinguish yourself from everything else. You are the host; you stay. Everything else are guests; they go.
– adapted from Ajnata-Kaundinya’s sharing